Friends,
October 11 is national Coming Out Day! You may not have been aware of that but I think it is the perfect opportunity for us to stand up against oppression and "come out" for clear and tough rules about bullying in schools.
I am talking about the oppression both subtle and overt of students that do not fit into the culture of conformity, so much a part of adolescence. Aggression and micro-aggression not only against students with an expressed different sexual orientation, but also against students with intellectual, physical, and emotional handicaps, as well as different religious beliefs and practices.
The news this week has been grim since the spotlight has been turned onto a rash of tragic suicides resulting from bullying of some kind within the school setting. I am sure this happens more frequently than we can imagine, but now that the media has turned their attention to it, we are suddenly made aware in a powerful way. In one survey (2009 GLESEN survey) 9 out of 10 gay and lesbian students reported being harassed in the previous year.
U.S. Secretary of Education Anne Duncan recently said; "This is a moment where every one of us -- parents, teachers, students, elected officials, and all people of conscience -- needs to stand up and speak out against intolerance in all its forms," "No more. This must stop."
I would add that the argument the suicides are the result of an unhealthy life-style is dangerous and leads to a certain absolution of guilt on the part of society in general, and possibly on the part of organizations charged with the safety of children.
So, here is what I ask you to do for your very own "Coming Out" . Please contact your state and local school officials and ask that they review and strengthen
their policy against bullying in schools (if they have one!). If they have a policy, ask that it be sent to you. This will let them know that the issue is important and demands attention.
Please feel free to forward this message to all your friends wherever they may live.
Thank you in advance, and thank you for coming out!!!
William
For North Carolina:
Bev Purdue (Gov.)
919-733-4240
www.governor.state.nc.us/eTownhall/suggestionBox.aspx
NCPublic Schools:
919-807-3300
Asheville City Schools:
828-350-7000 (Ask to leave a message for the Superintendent)
Buncombe County Schools:
828-255-5921 (Ask to leave a message for the Superintendent)
communication@bcsemail.org
Other States:
Google state government for you state or city. Contacts are not always easy to find as numbers are sometimes buried under much information (imagine!!), but they are there .
Sample request:
Yes, my name is ___________and lately I have been thinking about the recent rash of teen suicides around the country stemming from aggressive and subtle bullying of students who in some way do not conform to the general population in either orientation, religious beliefs, or because of physical or intellectual
handicaps. I was hoping that you could inform me of the policy against bullying that is in place for your schools. I would also ask that you bring this issue up for current review and do all that you can to strengthen this policy so that there is no misunderstanding about the severity of the problem for these students. I thank you in advance for all your efforts in creating a safe environment for all students, especially those who in some way do not conform to the standard population.
My phone number is ______and my email address is____________. I would appreciate any contact regarding this issue that is very important to me.
Thank you in advance for your time and consideration.
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